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Our adventures in Australia   (14 posts, most recent listed first)
12/04/00 Sad to say we must be on our way...
11/29/00 Petrol, roos & rain
11/24/00 Wedding by fire
11/23/00 Our Adnyani, Grannie Gertie
11/21/00 Home of the Native Orange
11/21/00 Being drawn
11/20/00 The bigger picture
11/19/00 Adelaide Y-Haych-A (YHA)
11/18/00 At the Camp  
11/10/00 Geoff's business  
11/09/00 Learning a trade  
11/08/00 To Camp Coorong  
11/06/00 Adventures in Adelaide  
11/05/00 Out here, we is fluffy  



Out here, we is fluffy
Location: Above Austrailia
November 5, 2000 - Kiran

"Isn't that wild? It's always sunny up here," Geoff is whispering into my ear. We have our faces pressed against the double-paned and slightly warped plane window as we descend through the fantasy land of the clouds.

My parents began taking me with them on planes when I was 2 years old. I imagine that then, like now, my fingers were clutching the sill as I peered out and dreamed up little creatures stumbling around. If I could just get out there, I would feel the soft, fluff-ness between my toes. And would I ever bounce and bounce and bounce...

Some clouds are bigger than Everest, Geoff tells me. We are flying in between two layers of thick, whipped, white giants. Those below us have glowing sun silhouettes. Never fails to take my breath away. We dip down and away, back toward the earth and watch the barren, flat land become rolling green hills. My eyes take in the layout of the suburbs, then cars, laundry on a clothesline, so close to the rooftops! We land in Adelaide.

The concept of flight is teasing my sanity. I have been transported to another continent without any physical effort and am finding it hard to acknowledge that I am where I am. Major Sumner, my aboriginal friend and host for our stay, greets us with a huge smile and whisks us away into the Australia sun.

Like that of many indigenous people, Major's cultural history is somewhat vague. The European quest to conquer all included a fierce attempt to wipe out all trace of aboriginal tradition. As a result, their language, traditions, art and history must be pieced together from stories told by the few remaining elders, other clan groups and photos. This is what Major has chosen to dedicate his life to. His family members and friends join him to be Tal-Kin-Jeri, a dance group which performs worldwide. Every year they hold a coroboree, with performers from other clan groups and cultures. This year, Geoff and I will be helping them.

We walk out to the parking lot. In mid-sentence I stop to gawk at a little boy who has just parked his car! Reality and common sense make its way to my consciousness and I remember that the steering wheel is on the right in Australia. Time to go to bed.
Only enough time for a nap. Two hours later we are in the Hungarian community center for a Fijian-Indian celebration of Diwali, the festival of light. We sit with the local MP and the presidents of the Fijian and Maori communities, and are introduced as distinguished Canadian guests. This just adds to the surreal nature of our jet-lagged reality. Despite the haze in my head, I can appreciate how each community is striving to keep their traditions alive. Australia is now a place of many cultures, not just European or Aboriginal, and Major is determined to join hands with all of them. When the Indian disco music begins, we say good night.
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Adventures in Adelaide
Location: Adelaide, Australia
November 6, 2000 - Geoff

Today was an errand day. We cashed traveler's cheques, bought groceries and changed our flight so we'll be here for the coroboree. I tried to get the compass in my head calibrated as we walked, but it isn't easy here. In Vancouver the mountains are north and the ocean is west, no problem. Adelaide is flat and the only landmark I could spot was a cellular tower quickly obscured by other buildings. We walked for hours and I used the first of my year's supply of blister pads. It felt so good to walk in the sun. There were Christmas carols jingling from store speakers. They seemed way out of place in the heat but I guess it's me not the carols.

Yesterday we watched Tal-Kin-Jeri dance. It was my first time. They were performing at a Greek cultural festival and the smell of souvlaki and spanakopita was everywhere. In a locker room below concrete bleachers the family painted each other while laughing and teasing. They were transformed with ochre red, bone white and a few emu feathers. When they performed the audience was enthralled. So much sound came from simple instruments: three boomerangs, a hollow stick and their voices. The hollow stick is the yidaki (didjeridoo). I thought I could play it until yesterday. Now I know what it's supposed to sound like. They danced to honour the animal spirits: emu, kangaroo, seagull and kite hawk. When Major dances you can almost see his wings. It was nice to feel like we were behind the scenes a little even if all we did was take pictures and carry their spears to the car. At the end of the day we split with smiles and a warning from the whole family: Kiran and I can't leave Australia without dancing with them. I hope I look good in body paint and a loincloth.
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To Camp Coorong
Location: near Meningie,
South Austrailia
November 8, 2000 - Kiran

In the evening I joined Uncle Moogy's daughter, Charlotte, for an hour of tai-bo and then caught the tail end of the Tal-Kin-Jeri (means 'bush turkey' in Ngarrindjeri) dance rehearsal- my first time at both. I learned (tried) the women's steps, kind of a forward-and-up swoosh and then stamp down with one foot, repeated with the other foot. Each swoosh-and-stamp has to happen within one beat. By the end of the rehearsal I was just beginning to get it. We practiced the emu dance, seagull, and kite hawk. The kangaroo dance is only performed by the male dancers. The women stand to the back, striking their clapping sticks to the beat of the yidaki (didgeridoo) as the men bounce around the room, scratching themselves and sniffing at things. We also practiced the pelican dance, a familiar and special animal for the Ngarrindjeri people. We acted out a fishing scene: the women in a line at the back, thrashing the 'water' with our hands to herd the fish in between the men and us. The men danced forward and then turned around. This was our cue to throw out the net, over our heads and into the water. The men performed the "shake-a-leg," their legs stirring up the water to coerce the fish towards the net. They moved forward, toward us, to get the fish in the net as we pulled it in. Then we all became the spirit of the pelican, swooping down to catch fish from the net in our beaks. Through dance I am learning so much about how Ngarrindjeri people worked together to hunt and catch their food and the different roles men and women played, equally important. It is one thing to read or be told about aboriginal culture; learning the traditional dances and language adds so much more depth. I feel it.

After the rehearsal, Geoff and I got a ride from Uncle Moogy to Camp Coorong, an Aboriginal culture and education centre, also on Ngarrindjeri land. Camp Coorong is to be the site of this year's Ngrilkulun ("corroboree," or cultural gathering). Geoff and I will do some volunteer work for the ngrilkulun and perhaps have a traditional Ngarrindjeri marriage there. The drive was two hours long, filled with stories of Ngarrindjeri culture. Uncle Moogy told us that females and males at puberty used to go through intensive initiations in order to become adults. The process could take up to two months, depending on how quickly the young adults could grasp what they were being taught. Ngarrindjeri law is quite strict; if a rule is broken, the Elders will administer a serious punishment, as the damage affects not only the individual, but the entire community. For instance, interfering with an uninitiated woman, or murdering someone, could result in being speared through the leg or banished from the community. Because the punishment and shame associated with it is so harsh, prison would be a welcome alternative to having to face Ngarrindjeri law.

We were told in depth about the Stolen Generation (late 1800s all the way to the 1960s), when the European missionaries were taking over the land and forcing the "savages" to become Christian (for their own good). The Aboriginal people were forbidden to speak their own language, practice their ceremonies, make art or tools, basically destroying their culture, and were sent to camps to become 'civilized.' The only alternative was to live in fringe dwellings, outside of the towns in small wurleys (similar to yerts) made from whatever materials they could find. Many Aboriginal people were killed, or died from introduced disease. The most common death, though, was due to absolute despair. The Europeans assumed that all Aboriginal people would eventually die out. When this didn't happen, there was a directive to assimilate the Aboriginal people into the European population. Uncle Moogy's fringe dwelling was often visited by "Welfare," taking away the blond and fair children to give them a 'civilized' life. In his camp, the elders would hear of Welfare's impending visit from a nearby camp, and signal the children to hide out in the bush. We watched a tv show, "The Stolen Generation," which stated that taking the fair-skinned babies away relieved the government of the embarrassment of admitting their people had had relations with Aboriginal women. They showed scientists with their charts: 1/2 Aboriginal + 1 full white = 1/8 Aboriginal, or some such calculations. In the camps, mothers would try to stain their childrens' skin and hair with ash or dirt to make them look more black.

How did the Europeans earn the trust of the Aboriginal people, to take away their land and culture, and inundate their communities with Christianity? One possible explanation: when the first Europeans arrived, it was as if the Aboriginal ancestors had come back to visit them. During a funeral, the Aboriginal tradition is to remove the skin of the deceased and place the body on a platform over a ritual fire, drying it out. The preserved bones were carried in wicker coffins by relatives and kept with them for years sometimes, until mourning was over. When the skin was removed and the body dried, it became a greyish-white color, similar to the color of the European people. There was a feeling of desperation throughout the Aboriginal land… what could they have done that would cause their ancestors to be so angry and treat them so badly?

We arrived around 10:00 pm at our destination and were introduced to the people who run Camp Coorong, Tom and Ellen Trevorrow. They were very warm and welcoming, and invited us to stay in one of their cabins while we do volunteer work for the Ngrilkulun. Uncle Moogy hopped back in his car (after a long day of work, dance practice and a 2-hour drive). I wonder what he eats for breakfast that gives him so much energy!
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Learning a trade
Location: near Meningie,
South Australia
November 9, 2000 - Kiran

During the day we took a look around. Camp Coorong is situated by the Kurangk (Coorong) River, in the southeastern part of South Australia. Yellow sand dotted with brush and ti trees cover the flat land, and big sky envelops it all. There are strips of land that look like the bottom of the ocean left behind after the water evaporated; hard-packed, white ground sprouting seaweed-like plants.

The cows look odd in this kind of landscape. It is because of the introduced cattle that there is such a glut of flies. Swarms of them, diving at me in waves, trying to infiltrate my tear ducts and mouth. Blecch! Doesn't help to know that they've just come over from the moist cow paddies. Flies aside, it's hot and sunny and as I think of cold, rainy, snowy Canada, I burst into a big smile (mouth closed). Tonight Ellen came over with big handfuls of freshly-picked reeds in her hands. She plopped down in a chair. "Want to do some weaving?" Of course I did. She assured Geoff that it was 'men's business' too. We started our little baskets, looping under, over and through. Geoff worked on his until midnight.

The moon is so huge and bright in the big sky. Our bodies cast long shadows on the ground, as if the sun was shining.
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Geoff's business...
Location: near Meningie,
South Australia
November 10, 2000 - Kiran

Geoff is still weaving!

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At the Camp
Location: near Meningie,
South Australia
November 18, 2000 - Kiran

We've been working for about one-and-a-half weeks to get the Ngrilkulun off the ground. We've designed a poster, a program and a website, assisted in fundraising, communication, scheduling, etc. It's been hard work, even more so for Uncle Tom, who has to oversee everything and take care of the Camp's faulty sewage system and fight to maintain a ferry service to a sacred island for his people.

The island is a traditional place for women's business. Initiations, fertility rites and other private ceremonies, just for women, were held there. Throughout Australia, there are many such sites for the Aboriginal people. Their importance has often been ignored with the construction of highways, railways and buildings on and through them. For ten years Ngarrindjeri people have been trying to stop the construction of a bridge from the mainland to Hindmarsh Island. However, the bridge was built this year and is scheduled to open in a month. Because a bridge potentially means further development on the island, Uncle Tom wants to preserve the existing ferry service to maintain an alternative for Aboriginal and non-aboriginal people who wish to respect Hindmarsh Island.

I have a lot of respect for people like Uncle Tom and Uncle Moogy. They work very hard to regain what their people lost during the Stolen Generation. Their work is never without resistance, often from Ngarrindjeri people with a different agenda. They have led very tough lives but have recovered and beam with optimism.

FYI: When the British first arrived in Australia, they declared the land as Terra Nullius, a 'land belonging to nobody,' even though it is estimated that there were around a million people living on the island. The disposession of the Aboriginal people, land laws and attitudes over the last 200 years have constantly been justified by Terra Nullius.

It wasn't until 1992 that the concept of Terra Nullius was overturned by the Australian Supreme Court.
Since most of the groundwork has been set for the Ngrilkulun (it's been called Ngarrindjeri Ngrilkulun 2000, Kurangk Ruwe, "Ngarrindjeri Cultural Gathering 2000, Coorong Land"), Geoff and I have decided to take a week off to see a little more of Australia, hopefully meeting the local Aboriginal people. We'll rent a car (maybe a 4WD, if we can justify the $$) from Adelaide on Monday and go through the Flinders Ranges to Coober Pedy (underground dwellings) and Uluru ("Ayers Rock").

By the way, Geoff has completed a beautiful little basket. Mine is still in the works...
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Adelaide Y-Haych-A (YHA)
Location: Adelaide,
South Australia
November 19, 2000 - Geoff

This hostel is full of spirits. Room 2 is the talking room. No one sleeps there without hearing at least one sleep-talker, mumbler or moaner. You can hear people speaking the cryptic sentences of dreams in 5 different languages. Kiran even joined in with a clear and insightful "You have to look deeper..." at 3 AM. Room 4 is the vision room. I dreamt of floating on a raft down a river between looming grey cliffs. We were heading to begin our lives at a lofty Himalayan monastery. I spent most of the dream questioning the monks as to what they'd given up to be there. I could feel the coarse robe wearing thin on the sharp rocks and a feeling of loss which I attribute to having to cut my hair. It was a vivid dream.

Kiran's dream was vivid too and more relevant. It's been an anxious time as we get closer entwined in the politics surrounding the Ngarrindjeri community, and our hopes of having a firestick wedding seem up in the air. Kiran woke up with a feeling that it would be wrong to push for a ceremony. The spirits spoke through her. We may have to listen to them. We leave in the morning for the Flinder's Ranges about 6 hours from Adelaide. This is our chance to be tourists and clear our heads a little. It will be an adventure. It's time for me to crawl into the lower bunk in the dark. I have to be quiet because there's a German couple in there who've been sleeping since 8:30. A sure sign of jet lag.
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The bigger picture
Location: Adelaide to Wilpena Pound,
Flinders Ranges, South Australia
November 20, 2000 - Kiran

Last night I had a disturbing dream. It was the night of our marriage ceremony at the Ngrilkulun. Uncle Tom and I were walking towards our ceremonial fire in the middle of a big field, relatives behind us, while Geoff's family walked towards us in the same formation. We arrived at the fire, silent. Suddenly I felt woozy, disoriented. My vision blurred and I was unsteady on my feet. I felt a presence moving from deep inside up towards my head. My head snapped out of its foggy state but was overtaken by someone else. I was an old woman. My mouth began yelling in Ngarrindjeri, angry words, to the crowd.

The anger subsided and the woman turned to Uncle Tom, still standing next to me.

She caressed his cheek and said (this time I understood), "I am proud of what you are doing, son." Uncle Tom's mother died some time ago.

I have never had such a strong dream before. There has been a lot of ambiguity around the possibility of our marriage at the Ngrilkulun. Such ceremonies were traditionally conducted by initiated elders, and there is no Ngarrindjeri man or woman in this generation who has been initiated. I've been stubbornly unwilling to accept that the ceremony might not take place. Although I'm still finding it hard to let go, this dream has shaken my conscience to take in the bigger picture. The disappointment weighs heavy but a new day has arrived and with it, a new adventure.
We eat a wholesome and gas-inducing breakfast of grilled tomatoes ("tomaah-toes") and baked beans on toast, and head to the car rental place. A four-wheel drive is out of the question. We get a small Japanese sedan instead and start our long drive up into the Flinders Ranges.

Eight hours later, we stop to camp just outside of Wilpena Pound, in the southern Ranges. We lie in our tent, listening to the soft thuds on all sides of us. The grasshoppers are checking us out.
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Being drawn
Location: Flinders Ranges,
South Australia
November 21, 2000 - Kiran

We get to Wilpena Pound in the morning and decide to go into the visitor center to plan our route.

We learn of the area's Dreaming Story. At an initiation ceremony, two huge serpents encircled the fire and people. They created a whirlwind and joined head to tail, eating all of the attendees. The serpents became the walls of the crater now known as Wilpena Pound. Such legends were passed down by the Aboriginal people for one of three purposes: to teach morals, rules of survival in the bush, or to explain the creation of geographical formations and animals living in an area.

The woman at the visitor center told us of hikes, gorges, tea stops and other places on various routes and a small Aboriginal community that sometimes told Dreaming Stories around a fire. I was intrigued. Geoff wasn't sure. It was out of the way and our little car might not be able to survive the unsealed roads- the last thing we need is a flat 'tyre' in the 40 degree heat. We headed first to a gorge, an hour away.

Kite hawks, stubby crocodile-like lizards, wedge-tailed eagles, emus, kangaroos, pink-and-white cockatoos, crows, magpies, willie wagtails... WOW!  We drive in awe through the hills, craters, rock formations and ruins.

During our drive we were still deciding on a route. Geoff and I almost got into an argument because I was being so stubborn about going to the Aboriginal community. We made our way up, over unsealed roads with ditches across them filled with water and sharp stones all around (me: crossing my fingers the whole way through). We made it to the final turnoff and drove the 11 km suggested by the map. Sixteen, seventeen passed and we were really starting to wonder if we had taken a wrong turn. There were no signs to give us direction, just barren hills with the occasional crow and emu, and the sun was making its way down into the horizon. Another minute passed and we finally saw it- "Iga Warta Community," a beautiful sign. We had arrived.
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Home of the native orange
Location: Iga Warta Community,
Flinders Ranges, South Australia
November 21, 2000 - Geoff

As usual a lifetime has passed in a few short days. We arrived at this small Aboriginal community just in time to set up our tent and cook up some Thai curry on the camp stove before sunset. Kiran was driven to get here as soon as she heard about it. Iga Warta means 'home of the native orange' in Adnyamathana language. They are the people of the Flinders Ranges.

This place isn't on many maps. Our little rental car bounced heavily over the kilometers of unsealed roads and creek crossings. It was worth it. This place is magical. We dodged emu and wallaroos (smaller, rock dwelling kangaroos) as dusk approached. The cliffs are red and glow at sunset. Just before we left Camp Coorong, Uncle Tom told us to say hello to Cliff Coulthard when we get into the Flinders. We asked for his address or phone number but these details didn't seem important. Tom said 'Just ask around,' referring to a barren expanse of land as big as Holland. After our meal, we joined our hosts around the campfire for singing and to hear some of the dreaming stories of their ancestors. After the stories, one of our hosts introduced himself as Cliff Coulthard. Destiny we figure. Now Terry, Cliff's brother, is looking into us meeting the local elders to discuss marrying here. Our dream is coming together.
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Our Adnyani, Granny Gertie
Location: Iga Warta,
South Australia
November 23, 2000 - Geoff

Cliff is here on a veranda carving into an emu egg as big as a nerf football. The egg has many layers and he scrapes down to get the colour he wants. On each egg he carves the emu first to pay respect. His father taught him that. He tells us that the dust of the egg is an aphrodisiac. Just by sitting by him carving we are vulnerable to its powers. Unfortunately we must restrain ourselves until after the firestick has been given to us to seal our marriage.

We drove to Nepabunna community to meet Granny Gertie yesterday. It's the site of the mission where most of the Adnyamathana people where herded by the European settlers and forced to abandon their ancient ways.

Granny Gertie is the eldest and related to most of the community by blood or by 'moiety'. Moiety is a blood group passed on by the mother's line. They are Araroo and Muthari or North and South wind. One can only marry someone of the opposite moiety. She is one of the only remaining Adnyamathana who has witnessed the firestick wedding although she was forced to have a Christian ceremony when she wed.

What a beautiful lady. She explained the concept of the moiety lines and was exited when we expressed our desire to marry on their land by the old ways. She surprised us by saying in her scratchy laughing voice "You want marry in the Flinders? You want marry firestick way? I could marry you if you ah willing." We are very willing.
Now we sit in the shade of the veranda somewhat stunned. We are so overwhelmed by the welcome we have received here. Terry Coulthard explained that he's always wanted another sister and that he felt a bond with Kiran right away. We've been adopted!! Kiran will be South Wind and I will be North Wind. Terry, Cliff and the other 3 brothers who help run this cultural center, become Kiran's nungas (blood brothers) and my winjas (brothers through marriage).

Terry has spent a long time this morning explaining how the moiety grouping gives order to the community. Children are loved and nurtured by their parents but disciplined by their uncles. Their uncle is any man of their father's generation and moiety.
Terry wants us to understand how the community helps each other raise their children. He speaks with a small stutter and each sentence is spoken in earnest. He wants us to realize we have family here now and with that comes responsibility to teach our children of their Adnyamathana family and homeland. It is such an honour and we can't absorb it all.

Tonight is the big night. Three of the elders will perform the ceremony. Uncle Ron (Gertie's nephew, 69 years old) is Kiran's Ngamuna (elder uncle) and will give us the firestick. It is his role to explain my duties as a husband. Granny will speak to Kiran as my Adyani. Auntie Gladys will be Kiran's adopted mother. I'm wishing away the clouds that are building. The ceremony starts at sunset.
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Wedding by fire
Location: Near Meningie,
South Australia
November 24, 2000 - Geoff

I'm a married man! The bond of the firestick has joined us for better or for worse. We sat on the ground encircled by branches and flowers. Our new family told us the way to behave to each other and Ngamuna dropped the firestick between us. Granny Gertie and Aunty Gladys sung songs to welcome our spirits back home from their lost wanderings. The clouds gave way to a beautiful sunset with lightning dancing behind the hills.

After the songs were finished, a platter made of bark was placed in front of each of us in the circle. On the top of one was damper, bread baked under the ashes of the fire. The other had a charred leg of the kangaroo they hunted for us yesterday. We've made a jump from a vegetarian diet to gnawing on sinew with our hands. Really it was an honour.

We celebrated with the children dancing circles around us. We ended the night giggling on a trampoline joined by the camp manager, Brownie the dog. The only dog I've ever met who wants to have his belly scratched while bouncing on a trampoline.

I'll never forget this place. We've already decided to give our future children Adnyamathana names and bring them here someday. I keep looking around at my new homeland. It's ancient and beautiful. We've decided to stay here for the remainder of 'vacation time' and skip Uluru (Ayers Rock). We want to learn as much from our new family as we can before heading back for the cultural gathering at Camp Coorong.

Read more about our Adnyamathanha wedding ceremony.
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Petrol, roos & rain
Location: Flinder's Ranges to
Eyre Peninsula, Australia
November 29, 2000 - Geoff

We left Iga Warta but it wasn't easy. I felt like I could stay for years just wandering the rocky hills and learning the stories of the Adnyamathana ancestors. We left after paying a last visit to Granny Gertie, Auntie Gladys and Uncle Ron. We put our little rental car through 2 more hours of gruelling gravel. This time we weren't so lucky. Less than 200 metres from the start of the sealed road our tire blew. With a good spare tire, spare fuel and spare water we weren't too worried but 41 degrees is too hot for pit stops. We changed the tire in record time to get out of the heat. We were pretty pleased with ourselves and the feeling of being prepared for what could have been disaster is almost worth the $100 new tire.

We stopped in Port Augusta to visit Terry's mother who wanted to meet her new relations. Vincent Coulthard, Kiran's new brother, stopped by and Kiran asked him to sketch out the family tree. It took more than an hour. It turns out we've been adopted by a huge family.

After leaving 'Port' we headed west to a beachside town on the Eyre Peninsula. Town is a bit of an overstatement: a bottle shop, a few houses and a caravan park clumped together by the sea on Venus Bay. It was as beautiful as it's name. It was blasting hot, with a north wind blowing of the dry land. It was like standing by the sea holding a giant hairdryer in your face. We played in some tidal pools and ran out of gas on a dusty red road. We'd planned to start using our jerry can supply as it was near the end of our trip anyway. As I opened the heavy green jerry can, heat-expanded petrol sprayed all over me. It doesn't make the best sunscreen. The lack of ozone down under and the deceptive wind add up to crispy skin fast. We saw a colony of sea lions lounging and Kiran screamed quite effectively when she found a bright yellow grasshopper, the size of a parakeet, had hitchhiked onto her lap. We let it off at the next stop (right away). We went to sleep under the stars with the fly of the tent completely off to get some breeze. We woke up to 3 centimetres of rain in the tent and a tropical thunderstorm all around. Fortunately there were no lights to see us shivering naked as we threw all we could into the car. We decided to make the best of it and drove to Murphy's Haystacks to catch the sunset. The Haystacks are big finger like red rocks jutting out of a field nearby. We drove half the speed limit to avoid rabbits and kangaroos. The roos we dodged here were the plains-roaming kangaroos as apposed to the hill dwelling euros we saw in the Flinders. We were also low on fuel and prayed for good mileage. We slept for 2 hours at the Haystacks before sunrise broke and the storm clouds moved on. We made it back to Venus Bay and found the caravan park owner ready to send out a search party. She had seen us drive of into the dunes in the sweltering heat the day before and had seen no trace of us except an abandoned tent this morning. We assured her that our adventures had been more embarrassment than emergency. Now it's back to Camp Coorong to prepare for the Ngrilkulun. Not before one dance rehearsal I guess. We don't get off this continent without dancing with Tal Kin Jeri.
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Sad to say we must be on our way...
Location: Adelaide Airport,
South Austrailia
December 4, 2000 - Geoff

We danced. We rubbed noses with Maori warriors and kissed Cook Island dancers wearing grass skirts and coconut shells. The Ngarindjeri Ngirlkulun was amazing and worth all the headaches. We got painted up and performed on the sand stage behind blazing fires and smoking gum leaves. At first we were nervous but the animal spirits took over and we were hooting and hissing and stamping with passion. Our time in Australia with our Aboriginal hosts has been intense and overwhelming. Our hearts burdened daily by first-hand stories of persecution and genocide and then filled with the warm welcome and love we've been given.

Uncle Moogy pulled another marathon driving stint to get us plus gear home in a mere 2 four-hour trips. Just before driving us to the airport today he surprised me by giving me a beautiful yidaki. Again I was speechless. I'd given up on finding one with some meaning for me. I didn't want to just buy one from a shop. I wanted to know the maker or player or just have some connection to the instrument. It is unique and natural, leaving me space to burn or carve the story of our journey along its length. We're off to Tokyo now and I imagine it will be a bit of a shock. We're leaving part of our home behind in South Australia.
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